As your coach I will help you decide EXACTLY what you want and need in a relationship. That means helping you identify your past patterns (trust me you have them) and creating a set of personal rules to guide you through picking a better partner next time.
Most importantly I'll help you feel great about yourself and inspire positive energy.
Self-confidence is incredibly attractive!
And if you're currently in a relationship, I can help you make it the best it can possibly be! I'll even help you decide if it's the right one for you or not. So many people stay in the wrong relationship because they think it's the best they'll get. Or because they're afraid to admit they're not happy. If that's what's going on with you I'll listen closely and together we'll figure out what's best for you!
In addition to my training, I have twenty years of personal dating experience. I have been there! And my strong desire is to help you find romantic bliss!
I can help you:
- Eliminate negative thinking and actions
- Break a pattern of choosing the wrong people
- Decide if you’re in a bad relationship and how to get out
- Decide if you're in a good relationship and how to make it a long-lasting, true partnership
- Find the best way for you to meet someone new
- Learn about Internet dating
- Keep someone when you do meet someone new
- Help you get through a break-up
- Become comfortable being alone
- Gain insight and understanding of the female sex (I have extensive knowledge of the male sex too!)
- Discover the best way to make a great first impression
- Spot and avoid waving red flags
- Recognize and stop destructive relationship habits
- Distinguish true love from true lust
- Improve your primary long-term relationship: The one with yourself!
I also offer personal image coaching in New York City.
I look forward to hearing from you and exploring how we might best work together!
your questions or to set up your free introductory call

Dating is all about the choices you make.
Dating is all about the choices you make.
Dating is all about the choices you make.
I can help you make
better choices!
A happy relationship will be yours if you're willing to make some
positive changes.
...the first place to look is inside yourself.
...the first place to look is inside yourself.
If you're looking for "the one"...
If you're looking for "the one"...
Donna used to co-host a talk show about Relationships
Push Play to hear Donna's Dating Advice
Donna Barnes is a New York University Certified Life and Relationship Coach.
She's the on air Relationship Expert for ABC News' hit series "What Would You Do?" She taught the girls to
"Rock at Love" in episode 7 of VH-1's Rock of Love Charm School. You may have previously seen her on
Good Morning America, Fox News, Fuse, Late Show with David Letterman, NBC's Today Show, The Morning Show with Mike & Juliet and The Big Idea with Donny Deutsch just to name a few.
Donna is also a writer. Click Here to read some of her Relationship Columns
You can speak to me right now!
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Coaching is done one-on-one over the phone.
I coach clients from all around the world!
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Thanks for checking out my website. My name is Donna Barnes
and I'm a Dating Coach. I truly believe that dating is all about you! And that's great news, because it means if you're not happy with your dating situation...YOU have the power to change it!
Start taking action toward the relationship of your dreams! It’s all about your choices, your actions, your thoughts and feelings. Energy is contagious, and like attracts like. What kind of energy are you radiating?
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It's All About You:
How to use Your Power
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